Wednesday, March 5, 2014

God blesses me with co-conspirators in success


Moments I cherish include times I’m learning from another. On the eve of turning 40 I had the pleasure of attending an Ash Wednesday service where I learned much from Pastor Lanette’s message, “In the Wilderness.” Before delivering this message she shared the scripture story of Jesus’s 40 days.

One piece that I’m still giving strong reflection to is where Satan had tempted Jesus with the being at the pinnacle of the temple and then how it applies to me.  Throughout my life I have attributed much of my own success to what I have done.  Tonight the fact that nothing has ever been done by just me struck a serious chord within my being.

My entire life I have been surrounded by others who wanted just as much, if not more, for me:
  • Parents who led by example, good or bad, never waivered in their love or support for me. I have always felt their love and pride.
  • A big brother who always stuck up for me, even when he didn’t agree with me
  • Another brother and sister added later in my life who wanted to know me and share our families together
  • Cousins who were immediate family and not extended family
  • Grandparents who taught me so much in such subtle ways
  • A husband who accepts me for who I really am and loves me more than I thought was possible
  • Sons who fill my heart with sheer joy
  • Nieces and nephews who know how to make me smile
  • In-laws who have always made feel treasured and special
  • Friends who chose to stand by my side and give support

 Pastor Lanette is correct. Success is not because of an individual by herself. It happens because of “who was with us, direct blessing from God, serving as co-conspirators of the good stuff.”

Forty really is an amazing number to celebrate.